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The Many Paths of the Would-Be Professoriate

Chronicle of Higher Education - October 16, 2017 - 7:49pm
A national program seeks to prepare the faculty members of tomorrow. About half of the recent participants at Duke University have become professors, for reasons that reflect personal choice, social forces, and quirks of fate.
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Pro-Trump Protesters Shout Down Democrat's Speech at Whittier College

Chronicle of Higher Education - October 16, 2017 - 1:17pm
Hecklers disrupted an event featuring California’s attorney general because of the state’s lawsuit against the Trump administration for rescinding the DACA program.
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Governor Declares Emergency Tied to White Nationalist’s Planned Speech at U. of Florida

Chronicle of Higher Education - October 16, 2017 - 12:59pm
The order is meant to make it easier to mobilize law-enforcement agencies for the event. The university has said it will incur at least $500,000 in security costs.
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Communication 101 for Professors

Chronicle of Higher Education - October 15, 2017 - 4:30pm
A growing number of institutions offer opportunities for faculty members to learn how to talk to the general public about their research in a way that is easy to understand.
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Tell the World What You Do

Chronicle of Higher Education - October 15, 2017 - 4:30pm
Colleges need the good will of legislators and the public. To get it, they must explain what they do and why it’s important. Michigan State University is training faculty members to do that.
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Groundbreaking Researcher Urges Conversations About Race Anew

Chronicle of Higher Education - October 15, 2017 - 4:30pm
For students, stepping out of comfort zones and interacting across racial and ethnic lines is key to their education, says Beverly Daniel Tatum.
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The Lure of the Lazy River

Chronicle of Higher Education - October 15, 2017 - 4:00pm
How the wooing of students, and the cultivation of their desires, shifts the priorities and the role of the modern university
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Appointments, Resignations, Deaths (10/20/2017)

Chronicle of Higher Education - October 15, 2017 - 4:00pm
A General Electric executive will lead the University of Montana; 15 academics are among the winners of the MacArthur awards.
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Will Fury Over Harvey Weinstein Allegations Change Academe’s Handling of Harassment?

Chronicle of Higher Education - October 13, 2017 - 6:37pm
The accusations against the Hollywood producer have prompted frank conversations about sexual misconduct. But it will still take a lot to shift how higher education treats such cases, experts say.
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Where the Buck Stopped in the UNC Fraud Scandal (Hint: Not at the Top)

Chronicle of Higher Education - October 13, 2017 - 12:25pm
The NCAA's report all but ensures that none of Chapel Hill’s top brass will ever be disciplined for their involvement. Here's a list of the people who have borne the brunt of the scandal's fallout.
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In UNC Case, No Watchdog for Major Academic Fraud

Chronicle of Higher Education - October 13, 2017 - 9:49am
The NCAA’s decision not to penalize the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill left many observers frustrated. That’s because no one in higher education is really responsible for policing fraud of the scope that occurred in the UNC case.
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Chapel Hill Is Spared Penalties in NCAA Investigation of Academic-Athletic Scandal

Chronicle of Higher Education - October 13, 2017 - 8:11am
The association not only stopped short of levying the extreme penalties that some observers had expected, but refrained from applying virtually any penalties at all.
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Anxieties Over a Donor’s Role in a Faculty Search Boil Over at Case Western

Chronicle of Higher Education - October 12, 2017 - 6:30pm
Faculty members protested the role of members of the Jewish Federation of Cleveland on the search committee. Then the dean fired back.
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A Professor Is Placed on Leave After an Internet Furor and Threats. What Happens to the Students?

Chronicle of Higher Education - October 12, 2017 - 6:00pm
Drexel University removed George Ciccariello-Maher from the classroom after he made controversial remarks. His students say they’re frustrated by the decision.
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With an Ambitious Merger Proposal, Wisconsin Charts Its Own Course for Change

Chronicle of Higher Education - October 12, 2017 - 4:52pm
Plenty of states are facing similar challenges, but none have proposed a restructuring plan on the scale that Wisconsin is considering.
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House Democrats Propose Making Obama-Era Title IX Guidance Into Law

Chronicle of Higher Education - October 12, 2017 - 1:24pm
The legislation would codify some guidelines — recently rescinded by the Education Department — for colleges on responding to campus sexual assault, in compliance with the federal gender-equity law.
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Things People Say

U.S. Department of Education Blog - October 12, 2017 - 1:00pm

Note: October is Down Syndrome Awareness Month.

 

Number One. “Did you know?”

They never complete the thought, as if just looking at him implies what they’re really asking. I ache to play dumb: Know what? That he would almost never cry as a baby and be a champion sleeper? That he would love to swim but hate to play soccer? That I could love him ‘til it hurts and still get so annoyed by some of his antics? As obnoxious as my brain screams for me to be, I simply answer “No. After losing the first one, I didn’t want to take any chances with this very wanted baby.”

The mention of my previous sorrow precludes them from saying anything directly about those tests, so I leave it at that. I resist ranting about warped concepts of perfection or the technologies the medical community pushes that are incapable of measuring the value of those born “dappled.” If I launch into my diatribe, their eyes glaze over as they nod in the faux agreement children give their parents when they just want the scolding to stop. I can always tell when they’re thinking, “I would have the test.” I couldn’t guess what they would do if it were positive.

Number Two. “My sister’s/cousin’s/brother-in-law’s/landlord’s daughter/nephew/classmate/neighbor is ‘like him’.”

What, rakishly handsome? Lucky them. A consummate flirt? Better watch out! The self-appointed town mayor, greeting every person or animal we see on the streets? Good luck getting anywhere quickly with such a gregarious kid.

I suppose it’s an attempt to connect, a way to say “he’s okay” because they know someone who knows someone who… But sharing an extra chromosome doesn’t make anyone like someone else any more than two people having green eyes does. Don’t tell me these six-degrees individuals are “like” each other. They aren’t.

Number Three. “He’s so high-functioning.”

Yeah, far more than I am at 3:00 a.m. “MOMMY!” “urgh…?” “WHY ARE YOUR EYES CLOSED?!” “I’m sleeping, baby.” “WHY?!” “unnnhhh…” “READ TO ME!!!!” (seriously?)

Number Four. “Funny, you can’t see it.”

What’s there to see? His almond shaped eyes that look through me as the spark of laughter flickering within them sears my soul? His cute little hands with that long crease across his palms holding mine, petting the cat, learning to write his name, wiping away tears when he’s mad? The orthotics helping reshape his desperately flat feet?

What exactly are you looking for that will legitimize him in your eyes? Maybe I should carry the envelope with the verdict handed down by some anonymous technician. Perhaps the letter from the state when the lab automatically reported his existence to the county health department “for statistical purposes.” What can’t you see? He’s a kid, growing up loved. What else are you looking for?

Number Five. “I’m sorry.”

You should be. You’ll never hear the thoughts he speaks to me with his smiling brown eyes as he tilts his forehead to rest against mine. You’ll never drink in the heat that radiates from his head or taste his soft hair on your lips. You’ll never be awakened (again) at 3:00 a.m. by the hot air from his mouth on your face as he whispers, “Mommy, I want snuggles.” You’ll never know how it feels to celebrate every jump forward in development that other parents take for granted, but when he finally does it, it’s a very, very large molehill.

You should be sorry that you can only see back in time. This is a new era with new opportunities and new ideas about potential and worthiness. I’m only sorry it’s taken this long and that we still have so far to go.

Number Six. “That’s awesome!”

Thanks, Brian—you are the right kind of friend. May everyone with a kid “like mine” know a man like you.

Number Seven. “I don’t know how you do it.”

I’m his mother. Still confused?

Things I Say:

“I’m so proud of you.” “Boy, you’re handsome!” “Why won’t you let me cut your nails?” “TURN THAT DOWN!” “Wanna go bowling?” “Sweetheart, don’t let the dog beg like that.” “Would you please put this stuff away?” “You’re just too good to be true/Can’t take my eyes off of you.” “No, I don’t want to smell your feet.” “I love you, my sweet angel. You’re my heart and soul, my love and my life.” “You know you drive me nuts, right?”

Number One Thing I Say. I’ve loved my son since before he was ever born. What else is there to say?

 

Jessica Wilson and her son, Jasper (aka Jaz, Jazzy, the JazMaster, or Dude!), live in a cozy house of fur with two crazy dogs and two lazy cats. Their favorite activities include singing movie hits, dancing in the kitchen, snuggling and traveling the world together. Jessica is Director of Communication and Dissemination for the Center for Parent Information and Resources (CPIR) and Resources for Access, Independence and Self-Employment (RAISE) projects with the Statewide Parent Advocacy Network (SPAN) in New Jersey.

(Cross-posted at the OSERS blog.)

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Tell Us: What Will It Take to Change the Climate on Harassment?

Chronicle of Higher Education - October 12, 2017 - 9:43am
The accusations of sexual harassment against the Hollywood producer Harvey Weinstein raise questions for colleges and academic disciplines. Have thoughts? Share them here.
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Teaching Newsletter: How Useful is Creativity? 10/12/2017

Chronicle of Higher Education - October 12, 2017 - 8:57am
How can you foster your students’ ability to engage in creative problem-solving?
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Essential Reading on the Chapel Hill Scandal

Chronicle of Higher Education - October 11, 2017 - 10:00pm
An academic-fraud scandal at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill has been a black mark on the elite public institution for years. On Friday the slow-burning scandal is likely to enter a new chapter, when the National Collegiate Athletic Association is expected to announce its penalties.  
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